27 Years of Love, Laughter, and One Unforgettable Proposal: Marco & Jeanette Rubio’s Empire State Epic
Washington, D.C. – October 29, 2025. In a city that runs on power plays and press releases, Senator Marco Rubio and his wife Jeanette just reminded everyone that the best stories are the ones that start with wind-chilled noses and end with forever. The Rubios marked their 27th wedding anniversary on October 25 with a throwback post on X that melted timelines and racked up 2.1 million likes in 24 hours. “27 years of love, laughter, and one unforgettable proposal,” Marco captioned a grainy 1998 photo: a 26-year-old version of himself, hair gelled to high heaven, kneeling in a parka while Jeanette, 25 and radiant in a red wool coat, laughs so hard her eyes disappear. The internet swooned. But the real magic? The tale behind that knee-drop atop the Empire State Building—a Valentine’s Day fiasco turned fairy tale, complete with a King Kong joke, a freezing fiancée, and the ring that got taken back *right after* she said yes.
It was February 14, 1998. Marco, then a Miami city commissioner with dreams bigger than Biscayne Bay, had been dating Jeanette Dousdebes—a former Miami Dolphins cheerleader turned bank teller—for two years. She’d grown up in a tight-knit Colombian-American family in West Miami; he was the Cuban exile’s son who quoted Tupac and Reagan in the same breath. Their first date was a Dolphins game; their first fight was over whether *Sleepless in Seattle* was “chick-flick nonsense” (Jeanette’s vote) or “a classic” (Marco’s stubborn concession after the third viewing). So when proposal time loomed, Marco fixated on the movie’s climax: Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan reuniting on the Empire State observatory. “If it worked for them,” he told his best man, “it’ll work for us.”

The plan was airtight. He booked a red-eye to New York, reserved the 86th-floor observatory after hours, and hid a 1.2-carat solitaire in a velvet box inside his bomber jacket. Jeanette thought they were just “doing Valentine’s in the Big Apple.” They landed at JFK, checked into the Waldorf, and by dusk were taxiing to 34th Street. But Mother Nature had other ideas. A nor’easter whipped through Manhattan—20 mph gusts, wind chill at 12°F, the kind of cold that turns breath to icicles. Jeanette, bundled in scarf and mittens, took one look at the outdoor deck and noped out. “Marco, I’m not freezing my culo off for a view. Tom and Meg had *heaters* in that movie!”
Marco’s grand plan cratered. The observatory was open, but the outdoor promenade—where he’d envisioned dropping to one knee under the city lights—was a wind tunnel. Staff offered indoor access, but it felt wrong: fluorescent lights, tourists munching hot dogs, no romance. Jeanette suggested the hotel bar. Marco panicked. Then inspiration struck. He dragged her to the 86th floor anyway, found a corner shielded by glass, and launched into Plan B: improv.
“Jeanette,” he began, voice trembling from cold and nerves, “you know how in *Sleepless in Seattle* they meet at the top?” She nodded, suspicious. He dropped to one knee on the scuffed tile. “Well, I figured if I can’t give you Meg Ryan’s moment, I’ll give you mine.” He pulled out the ring box. “But first—fair warning: if you say yes, you’re marrying a guy who once lost a debate to a pigeon in Little Havana.” She burst out laughing. He pressed on. “And also… I might do this.” He puffed out his chest, beat his fists like drums, and growled in his best gorilla impression: “Me King Kong. You my Ann Darrow. Marry me or I climb building and swat planes!”
Jeanette howled—tears streaming, mittens clapped to her face. Tourists filmed on clunky camcorders. A security guard gave a thumbs-up. Through giggles, she gasped, “Yes, you lunatic—YES!” Marco slid the ring on her finger. The observatory lights flickered like applause. Then, in a move so Marco it’s now family lore, he *took the ring back*.

Not forever—just for three seconds. “Hold up,” he said, yanking it off. “I forgot the speech!” He cleared his throat, re-proposed with the full Catholic flourish: “Jeanette Marie Dousdebes, in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit—will you make me the happiest man in the world?” She snatched the ring, slid it on herself, and deadpanned, “Second time’s the charm, Kong.” The crowd erupted. Someone shouted, “Kiss already!” They did—wind-burned lips, hearts racing faster than the elevator descent.
Twenty-seven years later, the Rubios recount it like a sitcom pilot. Jeanette still teases: “He proposed, un-proposed, then re-proposed—all because he forgot the Trinity.” Marco counters: “Hey, I improvised under pressure. That’s Senate-level multitasking.” Their wedding followed on May 30, 1998, at Miami’s Church of the Little Flower—400 guests, a mariachi band, and a cake topper of King Kong holding a tiny bride. Four kids later—Amanda, Daniella, Anthony, Dominick—the Empire State story is bedtime canon. The ring, resized twice for pregnancies, sits on Jeanette’s finger like a talisman.
This anniversary, they returned to New York. No blizzards this time. Marco reserved the observatory at sunset, no tourists, just them. He dropped to one knee again—creakier now—and quipped, “Still yes?” Jeanette laughed, “Only if you promise no primate impressions.” They posted a video: the skyline aglow, her head on his shoulder, caption: “27 years since I said yes to the man who made freezing funny. Here’s to 27 more.”
In a polarized capital, the Rubios’ love letter went viral for all the right reasons. #RubioProposal trended alongside heart emojis and marriage-vow renewals. One X user wrote: “In 2025, this is the unity we need.” Another: “King Kong jokes > congressional gridlock.” As Marco preps for a potential 2028 run, Jeanette anchors him with the same wit that thawed a Valentine’s night. Their secret? Laughter as ballast. Twenty-seven years in, the view from their empire—built on a botched proposal and a gorilla growl—still takes their breath away.